To Suffer is to Love
Cognitive dissonance was first proposed by Leon Festinger (1957) to explain why our behaviors don’t always align with our attitudes towards someone or something. He argued that when our attitudes and behaviors don’t match, we experience psychological discomfort that motivates us to reduce this dissonance. As a result, we often change our attitudes to match the behavior that created the conflict (Festinger, 1957). One type of situation that can cause dissonance is effort justification (Aronson & Mills, 1959), which suggests that when we put significant effort in or suffer for something that may not have a desirable outcome, we tend to justify that effort by changing our attitudes about it. In a study by Aronson and Mills (1959), female students were told they’d be joining a group discussion about sex. However, because sex is considered a taboo topic, participants had to pass an initiation test to join the group. In the mild condition of this study, students read a list of mil...